How to Attract Women

This hub offers advice for any men who want to know a little more about how to attract women. We are going to get rid of some of the myths that are associated with the laws of attraction, focus a bit on body language and how to use it to send the right signals to a potential partner as well as uncover some of the traits that women find most attractive in men.

Most people assume that attraction is based on physical features alone which is not only incorrect but also leads to a lot of misunderstandings between the sexes. It is true to a certain extent that women are attracted to a good looking man but there is much more to what attracts women than looks alone. Personality among other things plays a big factor for most women so read on to find out how to attract women and keep them interested! 

Women are much more in tune to body language than men and are more equipped to read signals they are being sent than men, this does not mean that men cannot read signals with a little practice and we will look at body language and signals a little further down the page. For now we are going to look at what women want and how to attract women.

If you think that big biceps and well groomed clothes are the only way to attract a women then you are mistaken, there are many factors at play when it comes to attraction for women and as we said earlier, personality plays a big part, but how can you get a woman close enough to notice your personality? Funnily enough it is not that hard. Women notice things that a man may never think of as important or may not notice. She will notice if the guy walking in front of her holds the door open for her or if if she has already spotted you across the bar or cafe, she will notice how you interact with others. She will subconciously take note of your body language as well as your actions.

Before we go any further we will have to discuss the physical appearance, everyone has their own preferences, there are no set rules but if you are comfortable in your appearance and appear confident, without seeming overly so and as long as you are not eyeing up every woman who passes you there is a good chance that she may have already noticed you. If she hasn't then its time to get her attention. This is easy to do, simply look at her, dont stare, but take a quick glance and if she makes eye contact with you, hold it for a second or two (any longer and you will seem a bit strange) and look away again. You may have to do this more than once but women are quite adept at noticing someone noticing them. If she does not engage in eye contact but has seen you look and turned away she may not be interested or may already have a boyfriend. At this stage you can try again, once but if you get the same reaction it is best to drop it, a woman is either interested or not, if shes not looking to meet someone you are wasting your time.

If she does make eye contact it is a good sign, and if she has noticed and is interested the next time you look over and make eye contact she may smile a little, return the smile.  Now its time to pay attention, does she glance over at you ever now and again, or do her friends look over?  If you feel you are getting the right signals you can approach her and introduce yourself.  Do not use a pick up line, they rarely work and are hard to pull off sucessfully.  If you feel you cant approach directly, find a way to accidently make contact, bump into her on the way to the bar, don't go overboard though you do not want her to think you are following her!

So if you have managed to make contact its time to let that personality show, but this is the time when you need to pay careful attention to her body language.  She may just be being friendly, never assume you "are in".  If you can make her laugh you will be doing well, women like to have fun and a guy that can make them laugh is more important than any pick up line.  If you can't do this, don't try, it could go horribly wrong for you.

Watch how she reacts to you while you chat, does she turn her legs towards you or away? Away and she is not likely to be very interested, if she has positioned herself that her body is facing you are her legs are pointing toward you she is interested in chatting at least.  Other signs of positive body language are if she touches her hair while talking to you or plays with her glass.  If she holds her arm up while talking to expose her wrist this is also a good sign and is done subconsciously on her part. 

Its important here to note interaction, if you can read the signs you will be able to tell her level of interest easily.  Stay away from the one liners and just chat, ask her about herself but don't make it seem like an interview and don't get too personal.  If you click and spend a while chatting at some stage one of you will most likely have to leave, if you think it has gone well, ask for her phone number, if she likes you, she will give it to you and most importantly, forget the texting rules here, if you like her text her the next day.  Men should text first as far as women are concerned and if you make her wait three days for a text she is not going to be impressed, nor is she going to believe you are genuinely interested in her.

Learning how to attract women is not difficult as long as you pay attention to the signals and know when its time to approach or time to give up and move on.